Everybody wants to make the best of impressions on their first date. This desire affects in one’s choices of dress, words, and overall composure. The desire to be seen and viewed by the other as well-behaved takes center stage and sometimes creates timidity.
Why do people take their first dates more seriously? Well, your guess is as good as mine. First dates are meant to give the man and woman the chance to get to know each other and potentially start a relationship.
But when it turns out to be an eating session where no one is spared then a wrong impression has been created that can probably kill the vibe and the intent of the date.
This is why a Nigerian gentleman called Babajide has listed all the red flags a man must look out for when he goes on a first date with a lady especially one who is a foodie.
In a tweet that has garnered a lot of engagements, Babajde believes ladies should not see first dates as a time to go break bones and empty plates but an opportunity to put up the best of attitude to stand a chance of landing a partner.
A woman that attempts to request for take away on a casual date is not a spec!You request, we will pay but just know that you left a footprint Secondly, if you empty your plate of rice on a first date, you’ve left an impression! I know someone that even chewed the chicken bone
This is the point, some female intentionally ask for take away ( my friend said I should bring something for them, my síblings are home). The date of whatever meeting is it is just for you and him! Forget those extras, everything that happens that day linger
Except you’re going to insist on paying, there’s no point for take away. Some pretend as though they want to pay (you that don’t have Tfare want to pay for take away). The idea is she already knows that as a man,you’d not allow her to pay! The willingness to pay isn’t genuine.
Again, a date isn’t an avenue to display that you’re a foodie! You are coming to have a discussion in the actual sense,the meal is just for refreshment ( I assume you’d have had your fill before coming) so focusing on the food and crushing bones is needless!
I imagine talking to you about something and the only filler word I get from you is the sound of you crushing bones!
I guess some ladies do this because they believe the date is their opportunity to reap the fruit of their yet to be done labor because somehow for some, after the date, the next meeting is sex and so the first date is for them,the next for the man..just maybe
I’m not saying you should form, eat the food but it’s unlady to empty the entire plate, even the last grain of rice some people will spoon it out! Doesn’t override your good character and other things good men look out for when genuinely searching but we notice the little thing
And let’s be sincere, sometimes we go out on dates not merely with the impression that we are interested in dating you, at times we just want to see if something abt you can spark the interest and possibly make us consider a relationship!But when you now turn the date to owanbe?
A woman that attempts to request for take away on a casual date is not a spec!You request, we will pay but just know that you left a footprint
Secondly, if you empty your plate of rice on a first date, you’ve left an impression! I know someone that even chewed the chicken bone